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THE ART OF BEING SELF-ISH

Do you ever feel that no matter what you do it isn’t enough? Do you constantly look to others to validate who you are and/or what you are doing? Do you consistently sacrifice your own happiness to ensure others’ happiness?

Many people go through life to the beat of another person’s drum. Refusing to acknowledge and unpack the trauma they have endured throughout life. The path to self acceptance, self love, and self care can seem impossible to a person that does not know where to start.

In The Art of Being Self-ish, Tor unveils simple ways to begin unpacking one’s own trauma. Tor focuses on self discovery, accountability, understanding, and acceptance in order to reach a place of self love. One must learn how to treat oneself before being able to teach others how to treat them.

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What Readers Are Saying

Thank you!

I just wanted to say that before I got into your spotlight. You've created a manifest to diagnosing what self-love should look like and through each page I've personally discovered that it's not taboo to be "Self-ish." I thoroughly enjoyed this read, so much so that I've read it twice. So that puts you in the same space with some of my all-time favorites!

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YOU ARE STRONGER THAN YOU THINK!

Being strong doesn't mean you don't need help. True strength is being able to reach out for help at your lowest point in life. Your mental health is just as important as your physical health.